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I Thought They Had My Back…

Hey Doll! Have you ever felt like you're stuck in a situation, and you thought your friend had your back? Maybe you were going through a tough time, and you thought they would be there to support you, listen to you, or even stand up for you. But instead, they let you down. 😔

You're not alone. I've been there too. It's frustrating, it's hurtful, and it can make you feel like you're all alone in this crazy world. 🌎

So, what does it mean to truly have someone's back? It's not just about being their friend or having a good time together. It's about being there for them when they need it most. 💕

When someone has your back, it means they're willing to:

  • Listen to you without judgment or interrupting 💬

  • Be present in the moment, even when it's tough 💪

  • Stand up for you when someone else is trying to bring you down 🛑

  • Support your decisions, even if they don't agree with them 🤝

  • Be patient and understanding when things get tough 🌈

But here's the thing: having someone's back is not just about being a good friend. It's about being a good person. And sometimes, it means having hard conversations, even when it's uncomfortable. 💔

So, how do you know when someone has your back? Here are some signs:

  • They show up for you when you need them 📣

  • They listen to you without getting distracted 👀

  • They respect your boundaries and decisions 🚫

  • They stand up for what's right, even if it's not popular 👊

And here are some signs that someone might not have your back:

  • They gossip about you behind your back 🗣️

  • They blame you for their own problems 🤷‍♀️

  • They prioritize their own interests over yours 💸

  • They dismiss your feelings or opinions 😒

So, what can you do if you realize that someone doesn't have your back? Here are some tips:

  • Set boundaries: Let them know what you're comfortable with and what you're not 🚫

  • Seek support from others: Surround yourself with people who have your back 🌈

  • Practice self-care: Take care of yourself physically, emotionally, and mentally 🏋️‍♀️

Remember, having someone's back is a two-way street. It takes effort and commitment from both parties. And sometimes, it means letting go of people who aren't worthy of your trust. 💔

So really at the end of the day, having someone's back is not just about being a good friend; it's about being a good person. It means being present, supportive, and understanding. And most importantly, it means being willing to stand up for what's right, even when it's hard. 💪

With the said, the next time you're feeling stuck or unsure if someone has your back, take a step back and assess the situation. 🤔 Remember that true friendships are built on trust, respect, and communication. 💬

And finally Doll, I want to leave you with something that I've learned the hard way … having someone's back is not just about being a good friend; it's about being a good person. As someone who has been in situations where I thought I had someone's back only to be disappointed, I can attest that having someone who truly has your back is worth fighting for. So, don't settle for anything less. I'm no expert, but based on my own life experiences, I know that finding those people who truly care about you and have your back is the key to building meaningful relationships and living a fulfilling life. ❤️

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