Like Seashells by the Shore: Embracing the Summer You Turn Into You
- The Founder

- Jul 5
- 6 min read
Updated: 3 days ago

Hey Doll!
Summer is finally here and with it comes long days of sunshine, spontaneous adventures, and the kind of magic that only warm weather and fresh air can bring. Whether you are packing your beach bag, dancing in your room to your favorite playlist, or just soaking up the calm of your backyard, this season is all about relaxing, discovering new things, and becoming even more you than ever before.
Think of summer like a treasure hunt along the shore. Every seashell you find has its own shape, color, and story. Some are smooth and shiny, some a little chipped or faded, but all of them are beautiful in their own way. Just like you.
You are not supposed to be just like anyone else. You were created to be your own kind of wonderful. And just like no two seashells are ever the same, no two girls are either. That is what makes this summer so special because it is your chance to fully step into who you are becoming, with all the fun, curiosity, and confidence that comes with it.
Exploring New Things
Summer is the perfect time to try something you have always wanted to do or even something you never imagined doing. Maybe it is learning to bake cupcakes from scratch, creating a playlist that fits your mood, or painting seashells with designs that reflect how you are feeling inside. Maybe it is helping your little sibling learn something new, starting a small summer garden, or learning to skateboard down the block with music in your ears and wind in your hair.
Trying something new does not have to mean making a big change. It can be as simple as making a new friend or journaling about your dreams. These are confidence building activities for tweens that help you grow in ways you might not even notice at first. One small step toward something unfamiliar can open doors to parts of yourself that are ready to shine.
The cool part is that you do not have to be great at something to enjoy it. You just have to be willing to show up and give it a try. That is how courage grows from trying, not from being perfect.
Create Your Own Summer Vibe
What does your perfect summer day look like? Is it sitting by the pool with a great book? Is it filming a dance routine with your friends? Maybe it is spending a quiet afternoon drawing, writing, or taking care of yourself with your favorite self care items from your Hey Doll box. Whatever makes you feel most like yourself, do more of that.
Your vibe is all about how you feel, and the more you fill your summer with activities, colors, scents, and people who make you feel good, the more your glow will shine from the inside out. Try setting aside time each week just for you. This could be a mini spa night, writing poetry, or even learning how to braid your own hair. It does not matter what it is, as long as it is something that reminds you that your time, your feelings, and your dreams matter.
That is the heart behind every Hey Doll delivery. We created the best subscription box for tween girls because we believe you deserve to feel inspired, seen, and special all year long. Each curated gift box for 10 to 13 year olds is packed with meaningful little surprises from accessories to skincare to motivational treats meant to uplift and support who you are and who you are becoming.
Celebrate Your Wins Big or Small
This summer, remember to clap for yourself. Seriously. Whether you made your bed every day this week, helped a friend with something hard, or just got out of your comfort zone, those are all worth celebrating. You do not need anyone's permission to feel proud of yourself. That glow up you are working on does not always come from new clothes or perfect hair. Sometimes it is just knowing that you tried, that you kept going, that you were kind even when it was not easy.
Try writing a list of things you are proud of. Hang it on your mirror or tuck it in your journal. Every time you do something you are proud of, add to it. You will be amazed at what you are capable of when you stop for a second and really take notice.
Kindness Counts
Let this summer be a time where kindness leads the way. Compliment someone when they are not expecting it. Share your sunscreen. Lend a hand without being asked. You never know how one kind word can turn someone’s whole day around.
But do not forget that kindness includes being kind to yourself too. It means forgiving yourself when you make a mistake. It means not comparing your journey to someone else’s highlight reel on social media. And it means giving yourself time and space to grow without being too hard on yourself.
Your strength is not just in how you show up for others, but also in how you show up for yourself.
Staying Safe and Smart
Summer adventures are the best, but being responsible is what makes them unforgettable for the right reasons. Always listen to your instincts. If something does not feel right, it is okay to say no. It is okay to step away. You are your own best advocate, and trusting yourself is one of the most powerful things you can do.
That includes things like staying hydrated, wearing your sunscreen, keeping your phone charged, and checking in with your family or friends when you are out and about. Safety is not about being scared. It is about being smart and in control.
And do not worry, being responsible does not make you boring. In fact, it makes you a boss. It means you are taking care of your body, your mind, and your heart. That is powerful stuff.
Embrace Your Inner Seashell
Every seashell has its own path. Some wash up gently on the sand. Others get tossed by the waves. Some are smooth and round. Others are cracked and jagged. But each one tells a story and so do you.
Your story is not meant to be perfect. It is meant to be yours. So do not stress if your summer does not look like someone else's. Maybe your vacation is a staycation. Maybe your highlight reel is made of simple joys like ice cream after dinner or staying up late to stargaze. Those moments are just as magical as any tropical getaway.
If you are searching for a way to make those everyday moments feel a little more special, a monthly self care box for girls like the one from Hey Doll might be just the thing. From confidence boosting messages to cute accessories and tools to express yourself, each delivery brings something new to explore and enjoy.
And if you are on the lookout for a unique birthday gift idea for teen girls this summer, our boxes make unforgettable surprises that say, you are loved, you are enough, you are amazing.
Capture the Magic
Do not let this summer pass you by without capturing the little things that made it special. You could start a summer scrapbook, take Polaroid pictures, or create a playlist that reminds you of your favorite days. These little time capsules become precious memories that you will look back on one day and smile.
Even better, create a vision board with what you want the rest of the year to look like. What do you want to accomplish before school starts again? How do you want to feel? What kind of energy do you want to bring into your life? Vision boarding is one of our favorite confidence building activities for tweens because it helps turn dreams into plans.
Shine Bright, Doll
Summer is more than just a season. It is a vibe, a mindset, a gentle invitation to be free, to be brave, and to believe in the beauty of becoming. It is a chance to explore who you are when no one is watching. To grow in ways that are quiet but meaningful. To laugh from your belly, dance with your heart, and rest when you need to.
So here is to you.
To the girl who is still figuring things out.
To the girl who is learning to love herself.
To the girl who is ready to take on the world one little wave at a time.
Hey Doll is here to walk beside you. To cheer you on. To remind you that growing up does not have to mean growing apart from who you are. In fact, it is about growing into yourself.
Every box we send out is a little nudge toward joy. A gentle whisper that you are worthy. A tangible way to say we see you and we celebrate you.
So go ahead. Chase the sunset. Write your name in the sand. Pick the seashell that no one else noticed and keep it as your reminder.
This is the summer you turn into you.




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