Have you ever wished that you'd had a restart button....and wanted a do-over? At some point I think everyone has, like, when playing a video game. We'll yank the joystick, thinking we know what we’re doing, where we're going, how we'll get there and, how things will play out, only to receive a totally different outcome. This is where society has coined the phrase, "Life Happens". With all the planning, preparation, saving, research and advice, we could never predict the ending. But, we'll try. The great thing about planning and being prepared is, you'll find that you are much farther along than someone who hasn't. Although you won't feel as though you've accomplished much by doing so, trust that you've done the right thing. I'm a testament to this. You’ll hear comments along the way such as, “Why are you doing that, it’s not going to make a difference..." or "I wouldn’t do that if I were you...". What about this one: "That’s crazy! Are you sure that’s what you want to do"? I've been called high strung and an over-achiever, as if they're bad words. If you're experiencing this from friends or loved ones, understand that life is happening; trust your own judgement. Everyone will always have an opinion about your actions; believing them fuels our insecurities. Have you ever considered that sometimes it’s not the do-over that's needed? Collaborate with a new circle of people who'll motivate and build you up. Return the sentiment, so that you'll all persevere and be resilient in your efforts. At the end of the day, it will pay off. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Just keep pushing girls!
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